Why a woman’s worth cannot be reduced to whether she has children. Recently I was reminded of something that has stayed with me. In an online space, someone tried to shame me for not being a mother. To be honest, the comment itself did not hurt me. I have reached a point in my life … Continue reading Mother’s Day Is Bigger Than Biology
Decency Is Not a Reward for Compliance
A brief moment of dignity in a Ghanaian market stayed with me — and what followed after I named it revealed a pattern I could no longer ignore. This reflection explores entitlement, rejection, and why loneliness is so often framed as mystery rather than consequence.
Accountability to Whom? Rethinking Why We Police Women’s Choices
In the past few years, I’ve noticed a growing chorus — online, in conversations, even in women’s spaces — repeating the same question: “But how do we hold women accountable? It appears every time a woman’s personal decision enters public discussion. And the more I hear it, the more I find myself questioning what people … Continue reading Accountability to Whom? Rethinking Why We Police Women’s Choices
