When a violation occurs, the direction of our outrage reveals our values. This piece reflects on consent, digital harm, and why women’s bodies so often become the focus of public shame instead of the exploitation itself.
Decency Is Not a Reward for Compliance
A brief moment of dignity in a Ghanaian market stayed with me — and what followed after I named it revealed a pattern I could no longer ignore. This reflection explores entitlement, rejection, and why loneliness is so often framed as mystery rather than consequence.
Koya Nkrumah 